I want to tell you guys about my book. Yes. I've written a book. 'All In Love Is Fair' is my book. My baby. A collection of poems I've written over the past two years that tells a raw and honest story of the trials and triumphs of love. 45+ pieces, exploring different styles (haikus, tankas, prose...) broken up in 3 sections.
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
'All In Love Is Fair' Campaign
Monday, December 30, 2013
A Message To My Sistas...
- "She's as hoe" if she has slept with a number of men YOU deem extreme.
- "She's a ratchet bitch" if she does something YOU can't understand and therefore don't agree with.
- "I'm wifey material and you aren't because you can't cook, clean or sex your man on demand"....
- The never ending light skin verses dark skin war.
Thursday, May 31, 2012
The mules of the world...?"
"Honey, de white man is de ruler of everything as fur as Ah been able tub find out. Maybe it's some place off in de ocean where de black man is in power, but we don't know nothin' but we see. So de white man throw down de load and tell de nigger man tuh pick it up. He pick it up because he have to, but he don't tote it. He hand it to his womenfolks. De nigger woman is de mule uh de world so fur as Ah can see..." - Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora Neale Hurston
Thursday, April 12, 2012
The Plight...
"'Allow yourself to be loved'
I stare at those words
Dissect them
Piece them back together
Nope.
Something is still wrong.
I rearrange them
Try to make it more appealing to me, but
Something is still wrong.
Allow?
The mere thought of love needing my permission to occur saddens me
Love is without effort, it just is.
Right?
'Allow yourself to be loved'
I dress those words up with fancy happily ever after's.
But the outfit was too tight
Suffocating.
To give love the opportunity to smother me, fearing losing me in the process..."
I wrote this piece months ago, but could never finish. Most of the pieces I write aren't my personal experiences. but often times representations of things I've observed or read or overheard. My mind is always on go and words are always perched at the tip of my tongue ready to be released. But in this case, I couldn't finish this piece because... it's me.
Honestly, this piece is a lot of people. There are many who love hard, but don't know how to accept being love. Crazy, right? Well, I never said it would make sense, but it is indeed a reality.
We spend so much time waiting and hoping to be loved. Searching, yearning. Expecting that once love is coveted, it'll full a void. But when we actually get what we want, we run.
I believe that the ability to not know how to accept love is the reason why people end up in bad relationships. I don't think this in any way reflects self esteem, but a fear of trust. Fearing that if you become comfortable with your trust, things will change or in the end you'll lose. If you're making decisions based on fear, then you'll find yourself dealing with the same "safe" situations.
When you repress your fears, you're resisting them. Resisting fears does not eliminate them. You’ll continue to feel and subsequently create the experience of fear in your life. Where attention goes, energy flows. You will always end up in the same complacent relationship that'll always lead to you being alone...
And isn't that the fear? To love, be loved and lose love?
So... it really makes no sense to not take the risk of allowing someone to love you.
"In the same way how darkness is the lack of light and not the opposite of light, fear is the lack of Love, not the opposite of it. You can't put darkness in a room. In order to make it dark you have to block out light. You cant put fear in a person. In order to make a person fearful, you have to block out Love..."
Are you allowing yourself to be loved?....
Saturday, December 31, 2011
My Top Albums: 2011
Well... It's that time of year again. When we reflect on the past year and look forward to a new one. Of course, my reflection of 2011 derives strictly from the vast amount of great music released this year. So I composed a list of MY FAVORITES (capitalized for emphasis of music that I preferred over the year). In each category it is listed in the order of number of plays it has received by me.
Hope you enjoy and hope I might have put you on to a few artists that you may have overlooked! Have A Happy New Year Everyone!
My Favorite Mixtapes:
Frank Ocean- Nostalgia/ Ultra
The Weeknd- House of Balloons
Teedra Moses- Luxurious Undergrind
The Weeknd- Thursday
Fabolous- The Soul Tape
Frank Ocean- The Lonny Breaux Collection
Pusha T- Fear of God
Stacy Barthe- Sincerely Yours
Chase N Cashe- Gumbeaux
Meek Mills- Dreamchaser
Young Jeezy- The Real Is Back
Wale- Eleven One Eleven
Melo X- More Merch
Masspike Miles- The Road Less Traveled
Terius Nash (The Dream)- 1977
My Otha Shyt Favorites:
Pala- Friendly Fires
Idle Warship- Habits of The Heart
Florence And The Machine- Ceremonials
Lykki Li- Wounded Rhymes
M83- Hurry Up, We're Dreaming
Dum Dum Girls- Only In Dreams
Britney Spears- Femme Fatale
Foo Fighters- Wasting Light
Coldplay- Mylo Xyloto
Jessie J- Who Are You?
My Favorite R&B Albums
Beyonce- 4
Miguel- All I Want Is You
Jill Scott- The Light of The Sun
Tank- Now or Never
Chris Brown- F.A.M.E
Raphael Saadiq- Stone Rollin
Marsha Ambrosius- Late Nights, Early Mornings
Anthony Hamilton- Back To Love
My Favorite Hip Hop/ Rap Albums:
Phonte- Charity Starts At Home
Drake- Take Care
Young Jeezy- Thug Motivation: 103
Pusha T- Fear of God 2
Big Sean- Finally Famous
Wale- Ambition
Jay Z & Kanye West (The Throne)- Watch The Throne
The Game- R.E.D
Childish Gambino- Camp
J. Cole- Cole World: Sideline Story
(Didn't Know Where to Place) Definitely Needs To Be Mentioned:
Adele- 21
Amy Winehouse- Lioness: Hidden Treasure
Look Out For (artist making noise... lowkey)
@fuzeb- Curb Your Sarcasm http://hulkshare.com/k7vnfq5aucjl
@AsiFrio- Pussy And Sportscenter http://www.datpiff.com/Asi-Frio-Pussy-And-Sportscenter-mixtape.298241.html
@Therealsoufboi- I'm So Georgia http://indy.livemixtapes.com/mixtapes/12983/soufboi_im_so_georgia.html
@Avionadramida- Avionadramida http://hulkshare.com/8pdj6h4441l6
@Avionadramida- The Recruiting Process http://www.mediafire.com/?uqpz6on0b59lwmq
@JustFLoWing- Go With The Flow http://www.justflowing.com/
@JustFLoWing & @MaVnificent1- The WaterBreak http://www.mediafire.com/?3ptmu8cvb6p6v84
@theYHGMbrand- The Empire Strikes Back (volume 1) http://hulkshare.com/frxo37nj026h
@MillyEsquire- Vintage Milly http://www.datpiff.com/Milly-Esquire-Vintage-Milly-BE-mixtape.268379.html
@MillyEsquire- Eating Milk, Drinking Cereal http://www.mediafire.com/?l30y5qr6jt9bqm9
@LexOfNP- Adult Swim (beats) http://www.datpiff.com/LexOfNP-Adult-Swim-mixtape.271104.html
@LexOfNP- Nick@Nite (beats) http://gotinstrumentals.com/mixtapes/NickNite-11303.htm
@PassportRav- Unemployment Check: Tier 2 http://www.datpiff.com/RavP-Unemployment-Check-Tier-2-mixtape.229341.html
@PassportRav- Passport Fridays http://hulkshare.com/gi0t9x35dbwx
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Leaks and shit...
I can admit that I am a very opinionated person. Stubborn, if you will. But I don't think I'm irrational. Before I disagree, I hear a person out. But...
Monday, October 17, 2011
We need a resolution...
On Sunday, social networks and blogs alike were in an uproar over a video that leaked of a 14 year old girl performing oral sex on a peer in front of a school, as other students watched. The internet was set ablaze with overwhelming opinions and judgments. Some looked for a specific person to blame while others accepted the fact that this young lady isn’t the first nor will she be the last of her age group to experiment sexually.
Young children all across this country are partaking in sexual activities that “some” of us would have never thought of doing at that age. But times have most certainly changed. More and more children are exposed to a lot more than when I was a youth. We now live in a tech world. Although things are accessible with just a click, there is no filter. The gift and the curse of the world wide web.
But as I read the rants of people who have heard or even viewed the footage (I have not because the ages of the participants technically makes the video child pornography), I became witness to a lot of finger pointing. When situations like this occurs, people more often overlook resolutions because they are too busy looking for someone to blame.
It is more than easy to blame the parents of this young lady. Where are the parental units when things like this occur? As a parent, it is your job to guide your children morally. Teach them right from wrong. But lets face it, how many of us know right from wrong and still engage in the wrong? Although at that age we are still developing (mentally, physically )is it still the fault of the parent if we choose to go down the wrong path? Mistakes are apart of growing up. It’s how you learn. Right?
What this young lady did was extreme, but before we cast the first stone let’s not forget none of us are angels. And if technology was as advanced when I was her age as it is now, I’m sure more than a few of you could very well be in this same situation.
To single that girl or her parents out for promiscuous activity isn’t fair. Yes, you can call her a hoe, but she is also a child. Many factors could be considered, but we weren’t given the full story, we were provided with the result which is the video.
And what is to be said about the young man on the receiving end or the young men who recorded it? Do they get a pass because of gender while the young lady has to solely suffer the consequences of her decision?
I say all of that to say this, the issue at hand is bigger than the video itself. The issue, to me, is more or less guidance. Kids will be kids and the release of that tape isn’t going to hinder any child’s curiosity in the future. As opposed to judging what these children have done, look at this as a forum to discuss repercussion. That young lady could be related to any one of us. The shame that her and her family have to deal with because of a decision now is unfortunate. But maybe, the next young lady would think twice about her actions.
Bottom line, take care of the uninformed youth. They are growing up thinking that they are mature enough to know and deal with what they are doing and partake in things that they probably shouldn’t, as we all did at that age. The video isn’t going to stop kids from having sex, that’s a fact. I just hope that this incident could somehow show that everything isn’t made to be put on a public forum and that sometimes, although just a kid, things like this affect your future.
Just remember that the youth of today is our future of tomorrow.
But, I digress...
Editors Note: Anyone who not only watched, but distributed the links to the video on the internet are, in my opinion, sick individuals. At the end of the day, minors are involved and you are contributing to the release and viewership of Child Pornography. Seek help, sickos!